Ruth just said to me - write about secrets in the house.....we don't have any!
Our aim is to deal with issues, not keep them hidden. I thank God often for Jane who will encourage the girls to come and speak to me about problems. Our past experience has been that rather than direct kids back to their parents, people encourage secrecy and confidences that are not at all helpful.
We have developed ways to raise issues that are kind but honest. It's not easy, but its biblical.
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